"A troubled international marriage unable to get a divorce, with the wife being extorted for one million dolloar" has been a hot topic on Chinese Internet searches in the past week. Because of the difference of languages, locales and lifestyles, a paragraph of originally melting transnational love eventually went to pair of legal proceedings, not only be asked for the huge break-up fee of 1 million Yuan by the other side, the court of tortuous and complicated cognizance also makes the Chinese girl exhausted - both mentally and physically. In the wake of the incident, international marriage is once again in the spotlight.
"Chinese husband + Russian wife = perfect combination". In May 2015, a sino-russian marriage "advertisement" published in Russian daily caused heated discussion in Chinese and Russian society. The Chinese men mentioned in the article "hardworking housekeeping" and Russian women "cheerful and generous" have become a group label with great spreading force. Many russians also believe that the marriage between Russia and China is indeed a perfect match. In the eyes of many Russian girls married to Chinese people, Chinese husbands take care of their families, have a healthy lifestyle, do housework and take marriage seriously, which is rare among Russian men. And many Chinese husbands who have married Russian wives say Russian women do better than Chinese women in many ways. The advantages of a Russian wife are independence, freedom for her husband, high level of education, beauty and hard work. In recent years, the exchanges between China and Russia at the national and social levels have deepened, and the two ethnic groups have met each other on the road of mutual understanding. In suifenhe, heihe and other port cities with hot border trade between China and Russia, cross-border marriage between China and Russia has been very common. The heilongjiang daily previously reported that russia-china cross-border marriages accounted for a quarter of all foreign marriages in the region between 2002 and 2012, according to the region's civil registry. However, a large number of good impression does not mean that the success rate of international marriage is also high. As China becomes more international, international marriages are on the rise. In neighboring South Korea and Japan, for example, the percentage of grooms and brides from China has been high. Japan's ministry of health, labor and welfare statistics show that marriages between the two countries have topped the list of Japanese marriages involving foreigners since the 1990s, with tens of thousands of couples tying the knot each year in recent years, qianjiang evening news reported. In South Korea, the situation is similar, with figures released by the Korea statistics department in April 2013 showing that Chinese men accounted for the largest percentage of marriages between Korean women and foreign men (26 percent). However, the reality is often not as beautiful as the imagination. For example, the divorce rate in the marriage between China and Japan has been very high. International intermarriage is not only about the new romantic happiness of marriage but also about understanding each other. The success of russia-china transnational marriage does not depend on the low material requirements of Russian women, nor is it far from the lack of Russian men, but the deep mutual understanding between Russian women and Chinese men. Hong Kong's ifeng.com reported in April that a 22-year-old Russian beauty had married a Chinese miner. "In the world of love, I think love is the most important, as long as we are willing to work hard, I believe we will be able to buy a house and a car as soon as possible." Her Chinese husband resigned from his previous job. After the formal wedding in her hometown, the couple planned to start a business in Russia. In February 2016, the northeast news network also reported the story of naga, a Russian girl who had been married to China for five years. After she married her husband in shenyang and became a "foreign daughter-in-law", najia not only learned the authentic northeast Chinese mandarin, but also loved to eat and could cook northeast dishes. The most important thing is to adapt to the filial piety and affection of Chinese culture. In addition to getting along with Chinese parents, playing mahjong will deliberately lose to coax in-laws happy. "My parents in China love their children by buying imported food from my hometown. They love us and I should learn to respect them," she said. Na jia said that learning Chinese food well for Chinese parents to eat, more like a Chinese daughter-in-law. But that doesn't mean every international marriage is perfect. In fact "happy families are alike, but unhappy family is unhappy in its own way", the key to marriage is to find the people, no matter what kind of marriage, the premise should be congenial temper, two people appreciate each other, love each other, so that two people can have a problem to solve problems, share the joys and sorrows,, grow old together.
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